I need some venting.

[Danii]

Well, I'm going to vent here for a bit. Many people know that I am in a LDR. I have been in one since I was 13. I met this guy totally by accident. He added me to his messenger account and we started talking from there. Forward 6 yrs into the future and that's where I am now. I still haven't met him yet. He was suppose to come on April couldn't happen due to financial problems. Now he was suppose to come at the beginning of August but that also didn't happen. Now I finally know when he's going to really come and that at the end of august. What sucks though is that he will spend a day or two in Miami. We can't do anything about it. Just jam as much as activities as we can in the days we are together. I can't complain at least I'm going to see his pretty face in person... FINALLY. Whoever read this whole thing I appreciate it.

[AmyAnn]

I knew my bf for five/six years now, too, and we've been official for about two. We're meeting for the first time this week and had made numerous plans, every one of them being cancelled, but we're finally getting four nights together now. It's not much but, at the end of the day, it's something to keep you going and get rid of those niggling questions in the back of your head (even the stupid ones you know the answers to).

[Danii]

Omg! I'm glad that I'm not the only one who has come through this. It makes me feel so much better.

[AmyAnn]

You're definetely not alone, haha. Drop me a message anytime, seriously. It's nice to know that someone else can understand.

[Danii]

I will, most definately!!!! I'm really glad I found you

[AmyAnn]

I just tried to look for a "like" button for your post. No more facebook for me tonight, haha.

[ashley]

That sucks, but try not to think too much about the time you're losing. Just spend as much of the time you have together. Time is weird in those situations. It goes by so fast, but at the same time you feel like you've been together forever (as in you quickly forget about the time spent apart until its time to say goodbye).

[Danii]

Thank you, Ashley. I'm really trying to focus on the time we have together instead of the time I'm loosing. It helps to vent.

[ashley]

Also important: try to put the inevitable goodbye out of your head for as long as you can. It's hard and you won't be able to stop thinking about it completely, but try.

When Jimmy & I first went long distance, for the first couple visits we were consumed by the fact that we'd have to be apart soon again. It just makes the whole tone of the visit kind of sad. Once we figured that out we'd try to pretend like the goodbye wasn't coming for as long as possible, then give ourselves a couple hours to cry/talk it out right beforehand. Much better that way.

[mads]

Yeah I mean for me I have a sort of similar problem...He's visiting around christmas but after that we don't know....cause I don't have enough money to visit him...